• Things I stopped doing in order to heal my relationship with food

    1. Admit that healing will take a long time. I had built habits for many years therefore the “healing” will take time 2. Accept that dieting is no longer an option because it didn’t give me the results long term 3. Accept potential weight gain because I never knew the weight I would feel comfortable […]

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  • 6 Things I Stopped doing to end my binges

    Six things I stopped doing that I thought were healthy but actually weren’t for my relationship with food: 1. I downloaded my fitness Pal. At the beginning it was an innocent attempt to track my calories and macros but it turned out to be a massive amount of time wasted on food and calorie counting.I […]

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  • Gaining weight from emotional eating?

    Hi ,  Does this cycle feel familiar? How often does it happen? If you are not sure, lets first assess are you an emotional eater to begin with. Are you an emotional eater? Do you eat more when you’re feeling stressed or anxious? Do you eat when you’re not hungry or when you’re full? Do […]

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  • Why do you binge over the weekend?

    When we eat, receptors in our gut response by releasing dopamine in our brain.  The more we eat sweets, simple carbs,  trans fat and salt, the greater release of dopamine. The more dopamine we have, the more “high” we feel.  More dopamine means also that we are motivated to have that substance over and over […]

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  • Letting go of my food-family connection

    My emotional eating started exactly 25 years ago. I was 14 years old.  Like every child, I needed my parents’ love to grow up loving myself. I was validated on every aspect of my life including my looks until I gained weight. I gained weight because I was eating more granted, I was lonely after […]

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  • Are you hard on yourself after a binge?

    If you grew up in a highly critical environment you may be hyper vigilant on your flaws. You may be trying to fix them in order to avoid criticism. If you felt abandoned, you will do anything to keep people around and try to be and do things perfectly all the time. You are hard […]

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  • Are you too hard on yourself?

    If you grew up in a highly critical environment you may be hyper vigilant on your flaws. You may be trying to fix them in order to avoid criticism.  If you felt abandoned, you will do anything to keep people around and try to be and do things perfectly all the time. You are hard […]

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  • What to do when the desire to binge comes?

    This is what I used to do when I was faced with a desire to binge and emotionally eat. Normally for me, my desire would come up after a very stressful day at work and I just felt I wanted to reward myself, I wanted to relax in front of the TV with loads of […]

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  • How to postpone the urge to binge?

    This is what I used to do when I was faced with a desire to binge and emotionally eat. Normally for me, my desire would come up after a very stressful day at work and I just felt I wanted to reward myself, I wanted to relax in front of the TV with loads of […]

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  • Can you binge in front of the mirror?

    I think it’s truly messed up that for a long time we (especially women) have been told to lose weight and go on a diet. Now all of a sudden we are told we shouldn’t diet and love our bodies the way they are. The issue is that many of us came out of dieting feeling […]

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